Pandoras Box(ers)

 Well another week has come and gone with promises of new entries but oh well.  What a crazy week it's been, It started out fine enough Friday came with so much promise. Ryan and I decided to go out and have a few drinks nothing too exciting(or new). Mikey called earlier and said he wasn't coming out, so we figured hey it hasn't been just Ryan and I in a long time. The curse of castro parking came into effect though and just as we pass a car the lights come on and they leave and another car swoops on in. After about 20 minutes of circling we get a call from Mikey and he says he decided to come out.Boom, a spot opens up. I guess we weren't meant to have a just me and Ryan night but a three musketeers night,it's all good we love hanging out with Mikey. So we all ease on into Daddy's and settle into a night that'll probably from the initial looks of it turn into a low key hangout night. Silly me and my childish thoughts, Mikey,Ryan and I started off chit chatting and playing on the video game screens nothing too exciting. After awhile I realized that I forgot to record a new favorite show of mine, so I basically spent the next 20 minutes or so telling my dad over the phone how to set up the DVR to record it. While that was happening I spotted a friend of ours Tod who was going to The Men's Room for a few drinks we followed for lack of anything better to do and Tod is a fun guy to hangout with. After a few Martinis and a few rubs of my butt hole by Tod we all went outside for a smoke. I don't really know how or why all of a sudden a head pokes into my periphery and I say "Hello....Who are you?" and he looks at me drunkenly and says in a snotty Spanish,Mexican,Salvadoran whatever accent "Who are you?" and continues to ask my boyfriend for a light,ticked and buzzed I blow out the light and say "I asked you first...don't light his shit...Rude ass" so we babble back and forth about him moving down from Boston?New Jersey?Somewhere over there and how all he gets is San francisco attitude, Now I get really annoyed because not only did he come out the box an ass he said I gave him SF attitude...The nerve. So we go back and forth and makes some motion about liking big asses and I guess I was suppose to be offended but I like my big ass and he proceeds to slap it so I proceed to slap his face 3 times and then he disappears. After that the night kind of fizzled out and we got food dropped Mikey off and then went home.

 I forgot to mention Fat Tuesday here in SF,It was fun. Showed my ass got some beads...Yeah it was fun.

 Saturday came and it was a pretty lazy day for the most part, Ryan worked on the room I worked on my first fully completed comic book/graphic novel character which I'll post here in a sec. Early on in the day we decided to stay in and chill. Around 5 or so Deano(RyanD...The Ex) called and asked if we'd be interested in going out after awhile I said yeah Ryan decided to stay in. Deano got here and we left for the city. It was fun a lot more fun than I thought it would be only because I was still a little queasy from the night before. We reminisced a bit it's always good talking to Ryan and seeing how he's doing. I get a little guarded with him sometimes though and I'm not sure why. Maybe because we go through such long stretches without seeing each other,Who knows. We went to Daddy's had a drink and chatted a bit,went to Bad(sad)lands had a drink wondered what the hell happened to Wynonna Judd all the Judds were on Oprah cryin,went to the back bopped around a bit but it was waaay to crowded so we went to The Cafe. The Cafe was cool we talked about my open relationship the how's and why's and I was loosening up a bit and then Dustin Ryan's ex popped in and said hi now if you didn't know they're breakup wasn't a great one I don't even think Ryan thinks of them as friends anymore which puts me in a bit of an awkward position because I don't have a problem with Dustin matter of fact we had a drunken moment in OCT. (Scroll down for the story). Even so Dustin isn't my best friend either so we left by this time we've gone to a few bars and have and more than a few drinks so I called Ryan and asked him if he still wanted to go to Underground and that if he did could he bring us back home he decided he'd come out. We walked up to Underground and for some reason we were talking about Ryan's butt and his wallet creating and unsightly bulge so he gave me his wallet.LOL. The whole night though it was kinda funny because here we are drunk ex's hanging on each other, talking about old times.Too funny. Ryan and I had one of those break ups that allowed us to stay really great friends and still be able to talk about our relationship without regret or hurt feelings involved. Also it doesn't hurt that sexually we were very very compatible and that never faded.LOL. So it's always fun and playful hanging out with him we did end up later on talking about the possibility of fooling around again we might we might not I always have a hard time passing up great sex though.We'll see.

 On a more somber note that same night my Brother was in a car accident with my uncle and neighbor/family friend in the car My uncle is still in the hospital in a coma, our neighbor didn't make it. My brother isn't handling it very well no matter what he says. I feel a bit conflicted though I mean I feel really bad for our neighbors family but I am happy my brother is alive and well.

 It has been about 3 weeks since all of this happened so I'll post another entry and re cap this past few weeks events and at least they have been just that events.LOL. Later.