Bigger and Bloggier

Hey everyone sorry it's taken so long to update this thing but life has been just that boring. Not really but pretty damn close, when last i blogged I was preparing myself for Ryan's birthday and Folsom Street Fair well to say it was a drunken disaster(in a good way) would be an understatement. From what I can remember our friends Jeffrey and Gerren came over Friday and we had a few drinks here at home then at about midnight or so Ryan and I went out to Daddy's and tried to maneuver our way through the leather and chest fur and managed to get a drink before deciding we ourselves were already to drunk to have a good time so we came home.

 Saturday found us getting up fairly early to get to The BMB meet and greet at Mezzanine which also turned out to be pretty damn fun even though we pretty much stood around and drank and gossiped the whole time, drunk by 4 we met up with our friend Derrick and made our way back down to the East Bay to rest up and show Gerren Barbershop the T.V. Show which is hilarious BTW. Afterwards we got our sorry ass carcasses up and went back to SF and for the life of me I can't remember what the hell happened. Hopefully we didn't break anything.

 Sunday Derrek, Ryan and I went for lunch and then dropped Derrick off at B.A.R.T. came back home had much needed sex and then rest. Around 9 or so we went back to Sf after the Folsom festivities had died down and went to Cip Lounge for some drinks where after more than a few Liquid lushes I gave some guy head in the bathroom who was totally not my type of guy skinny D&G all the way but whatever Variety being the spice of life I guess, and then something happened that I can only describe as out of left field, I was pretty much done after a few minutes because as cute as being on my knees in a bathroom is I have a low tolerance for it. So I get up tell him that's it pretty much and then his glazed over eyes look at me and says "you're hot" and then he pisses on my pissing penis and all I could think of was 1 he's pissing on my dick and 2 it's hot. So I zip up take two steps back and say "ummm OK" and leave that was pretty much that. We stayed a bit longer drank a bit more and then left.

 The next weekend was Castro Street Fair and the only memorable thing about that weekend was on Sunday night we get a call from Tom the other half of Tom and Craig a couple from Ryan's past that he use to fool around with the same Tom who has confessed a certain attraction for me and who i have also confessed an attraction to but for one reason or another our friendship has pretty much stayed on the IM occasional phone call level. For the most part I think Tom is a wonderfully big hearted attractive guy but there's a sadness about him that I feel bad for. He's the type of person that is really good looking on the outside as well as inside but for one reason or another has pretty low self esteem and you look at him and think you have a lot going for you if you could just believe it more you'd be perfect but I guess everyone in some form or another are their own worst critic some of us just hide it better than others or at least don't give into those criticisms as quickly. I guess that was another side-bar...So back to the story, Tom calls and asks if we're coming out because Craig, a friend who's name escapes me and he are at Badlands so we discuss it for a bit then decide why not so we meet then at badlands and I can already tell Tom has had a few, he's just a bit looser and definetly more flirty which I love and am all for from him, Craig is a lot more drunk and for some reason I have never really been 100% comfortable around I don't know why maybe because I felt like he was a little overbearing of Tom for my taste but I could tell right off the bat he was shooshing me away so he could get at Ryan who later told me Craig is a cool person to hang out with and if the four of us were gonna fool around he'd be cool with that but that he didn't want a 1 on 1 with Craig. Fair enough but at that moment Tom and I were headed for the dance floor and started our little make out session on the dance floor which is always a little surreal for me because at gay clubs whenever there are two guys dancing making out groping chicks always want to watch and/or grab. I pretty much got into being with Tom in that moment and I think we made through 4 or 5 songs(Tom if you read this...Nice ass loved it) but I figured Ryan was probably wondering what was going on. So we made our way through the dance floor and found Ryan and Craig after a minute or so Tom and Craig had to leave. That was Sunday...

 One last thing I said Ryan and I had a Queer as Folk moment at B-unit last entry and then I gotta check out. We found out about this new club opening at the Bench and Bar called B-Unit so we figured hey why not something new and it's in the east bay. So we went and the music was cute and the guys were big and beefy and the bartenders well lets just say I have a special place in my heart for hot bartenders so there they are;) after a few hours of dancing Ryan ran into an old high school friend who revealed to having had a crush on Ryan since then and his boyfriend so after pleasnatries we got along really well so after about an hour or so of chatting we all went to "the back room" and started making out next thing I know I have a finger in my ass and it ain't from anybody I came in the room with but I guess in these situations you just have to go with it which I did and I could do a play by play but you get the picture suck suck, bob bob,slurp slurp...ahhhhh... and that was also a Sunday.

I'll catch ya'll up later on through Friday.